I would like to share my experience with my latest birth
of my son. I am currently a mother of
three boys. My first was about eleven
years ago, then my middle five years ago, and now my latest was only three
moths ago. I will touch on the previous
deliveries only because they were significantly different. Due to my first delivery having to be an
emergency cesarean, my odds of repeating the procedure was rather high. Of course, my age was different with each
child. Which would contribute to my
maturity level and the ability for my body to recover. From the first delivery to the last the
support for pregnant women has truly improved and gained great knowledge to
support healthy development. I feel now
hospitals and doctors promote nurture and attachment sooner, then in previous
years. I can remember the nervousness
was no different with either delivery.
Being a scheduled c-section, we knew the exact day and time. Understanding the complications and knowing
the odds did increase to a level of anxiety for me. Having this knowledge at every delivery
created stress and keep me from getting enough rest the night before entering
the hospital. Just as my previous
deliveries family and friends gathered in the waiting room to celebrate his
arrival. With the new policy enforced in
the hospitals, my son came immediately to me once he was examined. Once everything checkout with fine and
healthy he was placed in his father’s hands and brought to my chest. Due to the nature of my delivery I was not
able to hold him until I was in recovery.
Due to the amount of scar tissue from my last two caesareans, the time
to suture me together was a bit longer than anticipated. Nevertheless I remember the nurses being
eager for him to join me. Referring to
my last two deliveries, it was totally different. My first son the nurse offered to keep him in
the nursey until I got some rest. There
was a delay on the attachment with my oldest son to say. My middle child was a bit different with a
stronger support for lactation and he was brought to the room while in
recovery, but no support or guidance on skin-to-skin contact. Personally, I would have to say my last
delivery was the best for healthier development. Mother-baby attachment is enforced stronger
and the support for lactation is promoted.
At this last delivery there is not a nursey for healthy infants. They must go to the room with the
mother. I truly appreciate the attempts
to create an instant attachment to the mother as this is vital for a child to
thrive. Even though the mothers, as I
was completely exhausted, the support to help one rest and receive help is
ample. Nurses, volunteers, and interns
are willing to watch the infant for and hour to two to allow some time to
rest. As rest is vital for the mother,
from every aspect.
I chose to research the birthing options available for
women in Australia. From the article I
read it appears that the women from Australia have very similar options as
women in the United States of America for delivering their babies. Of course as in American there are similar
environmental influences on the mother and fetus, such as socioeconomics,
health concerns, genetics, and more.
Nevertheless, the available birthing options are as followed: Public and
private hospitals, birth centre, or at home.
Of course insurance is a contributor in which choices some women
make. Per the policies in Australia in
insurance and medical procedures there is a degree of differences. For example, in public hospital the option
for c-section is not allowed unless medically needed. Another example would be the use of Birth
Centre, this procedure is covered by Medicare and is free. Of course private midwifes and doctors charge
and can be file with insurance. It is
apparent that the options are similar in American, but due to hospital polices
and those of insurance providers, there are limitations on the choice of
delivery. American can also be said to
have policies through insurance and the hospitals. These policies differ from region to region. (2018, McCulloch).
Birthing experiences indeed vary from region to
region. Many factors can contribute to
how a baby is born. For example, as I
mentioned above my first child ended up being an emergency c-section. Thankfully in American that is a
possibility. For the regions that have
improved health care the focus on development of the baby should always focus
at the starting of prenatal care. Then
the next focus of development should be after delivery and the impact of
skin-to-skin contact, breastfeeding, and attachment to mother. These focuses can allow an infant to strive
in development.
Reference:
McCulloch, S., (2018, June 5). Birth options in Australia: public, private,
birth centre or home. Retrieved November
2, 2018 from https://www.bellybelly.com.au/birth/australia-public-private-birth-centre-home/
Leslie,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing you experience! I don't think I could ever be that strong, I am so happy that things turned out well, and I hope you and your children are doing well.