Communicating and
Collaborating in the Early Childhood Field first blog assignment is to think of
someone (e.g., family member, celebrity, politician, friend, or professor) who
demonstrates competent communication within a particular context. What behaviors
does this person exhibit that make him or her effective? Would you want to
model some of your own communication behaviors after this person? Why or why
not?
I
feel that the person I would say that demonstrates competent communication within
the particular context of early childhood education would be my former employer
Gina. She is the owner and operator of 2
operating childcare centers. She is not
only an advocate for children she serves, but also her church and community. From my pervious experience in observing her
communicate with parents, staff, and myself.
She maintains a level of ethics and respect always. Allowing every individual to express themselves
and their opinions. In any staff meeting
she would follow with a written dialect the next day, for us to verify our interpretation,
as well as her coding/meaning. Open body
language that shows attention to the messenger and their point of view. She advocates for her views and the rights
for children. She portrayed an admiral
demeanor throughout every encounter. I
recall an obstacle relating to the facilities water, as she was on a well, she
faced during my employment that created a great adversity for her
professionally and personally. As she
lost children due to having to be closed for water repair. She maintained a composer that allowed open
and clear communication with parents and staff.
I would state that she would fall into the Code of Ethics
and Values provided by the NAEYC. The “…commitment
to
·
Appreciate childhood as a unique and valuable
stage of the human life cycle
·
Base our work on knowledge of how children
develop and learn
·
Appreciate and support the bond between
the child and family
·
Recognize that children are best understood
and supported in the context of family, culture, community, and society
·
Respect the dignity, worth, and uniqueness
of each individual (child, family member, and colleague)
·
Respect diversity in children, families,
and colleagues
·
Recognize that children and adults achieve
their full potential in the context of relationships that are based on trust
and respect” (National Association for the Education of Young Children, 2005, p
1).
Demonstrating these
values and others that are associated with her philosophy allows her the
opportunity to remain open, respectful, and patient in communicating. Additional as for anyone the means of communication
can have ample purposes. For when one is
making a point or addressing an issue, facts and finds from other sources are
vital. Having adequate information and
facts can allow us to validate our opinions and views. For example a great piece of knowledge I
gained early in my academic career was the reality of epistemology. When we are able to become intellectually virtuous. We must evaluate the opinions and facts
presented in a conversation to validate its truth. “A full study of the subject would require
delving into the various sources of knowledge such as perception, memory and
testimony, in addition to whatever faculties of understanding we may have that
allow us to grasp truths independently of sense of experience” (Wood, 1998, p
15). There are many factors that
contribute to communication and relying a message. We must filter whether one is sharing an
opinion, experience, facts, or views. I
can say I feel Mrs. Gina indeed displayed these traits from my interpretation. I truly look up to her and she is one of the
role models that have led me to the path I am on now. My first employer, my first passion, serving children. Watching her through the years has helped my
fuel stay full in traveling down a road to my goals in my professional and personal
life.
References
National Association for
the Education of Young Children. (2005, April). NAEYC code of ethical conduct and statement of
commitment. Retrieved from http://www.naeyc.org/files/naeyc/file/positions/PSETH05.pdf
Wood, J. (1998). Epistemology;
Becoming intellectually virtuous. Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press.
Hi Leslie, I like your selection for a person with communication skills who demonstrates competent communication within a particular context. As evidence of her owning some daycare services her communication skills are to be modeled. The person I posted about the former President Obama who also displayed very good communication skills to be admired. Thanks for your insightful blog posting.
ReplyDeleteI love that you posted quotes. It is true, so often I am listening to reply and am potentially missing so much of what is trying to be communicated to me!
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DeleteThe characteristics you mentioned about the person you selected are meaningful for effective communication. The skills of listening, the use of body language, and paraphrasing the messages or the conversation are needed to assure the complete understanding of the communication.
ReplyDeleteI love the quotes you posted emphasizing the importance of listening and reflecting our message before sending it!
Really great!
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